I have been excited to photograph a father-daughter shoot since day one of the Happy Film Company and finally today the sun was shining and it happened! Paul & Neela were playing tag, picking dandelions & patiently waiting for bunny rabbits to hop out and say hello. I gave very little direction apart from "Run through the grass and have a good time." and I just let them play together. It was actually 'Take Your Daughter to Work Day' and this was their morning activity together before going into the office. Perfect! Most of the time I'm photographing families as an entire group with everyone present; obviously this makes sense because if you're going to spend money on family portraits, you kinda want to have the whole family there, right? So why pay for just a shoot with just one parent and the kids...or one parent and one kid...or just parents...or just kids? Simple answer. Relationships are dynamic and different. Father-daughter time is a very different vibe than mother-daughter or entire family together time. You can capture the special nature of each individual relationship. Understandably, it isn't financially possible for everyone to book full photo shoots for every relationship within the family - too pricey. So instead, consider using our mini sessions or our new POP-UP shoots for this. These shorter shoots are more affordable and we do them often so you can rotate through the family.
What if my kid doesn't smile at the camera? What if they have a short attention span? What if they're obsessed with rocks and won't do anything else during our family photo shoot? First of all, who cares? Let's think about this experience as a moment to capture how things are...how they really are. Smiley photos are nice, but the ones we LOVE are the grumpy faces that you'll laugh back at, the intense focus on the shiny object (the truck, the hose, the rock), the snuggles from mom after a major meltdown. These beautiful moments of life can be captured with beautiful photography.
If we go into the shoot fixated on getting smiley photos then we're going to be stressed or frustrated if the kids don't cooperate and we'll be disappointed with the end product. If we go in open minded, give the kids freedom to explore or be shy, and celebrate the raw honest moments that are the most private and special (least photographed), then we're in for a treat.
As your photographer, I prioritize the art of making sure the photographs look beautiful and they are as flattering as possible to you. I am sensitive to double-chins, un-tucked shirts, blinking eyes etc... I keep an eye out for these things while you play freely. I want to take photos for you that are actual happy memories that got captured. I'm not as interested in taking photos that are posed just for the sake of a photo...I mean, what's the point of that?
When you look at a posed photo, sure you look pretty but does it make your heart sing with joy? I want to take photos that make you feel, cry, laugh and remember how wonderful your life is with these people you love. That's what we're shooting for, literally. So...what if your kid doesn't smile? What if they just want to hide behind your leg? We're working with kids, which means we're working with magical little creatures. Let's be patience, accepting and curious and see what happens and I'll capture it beautifully for you. Lots of love, Chamonix.